If you’ve preached in church for a while and watched your listeners, you’ve probably noticed that some don’t listen. I realize some may be faking it; they may actually be listening even though they look like they’ve checked out. However, it is a reality of pastoral preaching that some parishioners don’t listen. Some do not hear God’s Word, don’t receive God’s Word, and are not changed by it. It’s very easy to get upset with them.
In Luke 9:54, Jesus’ disciples, James and John (a.k.a., sons of thunder!) ask Him, “Lord, do you want us to tell fire to come down from heaven and consume them?” What a way to react to those who don’t listen! Yikes! Jesus’ abridged answer: “But he turned and rebuked them” (v. 55). That’s it. Ryken says, “it was still time for mercy.”
What were they thinking? Well, they were protecting Jesus; their Lord was being insulted. They were extremely zealous for God and for souls (OK, at least they were extremely zealous for God). It’s easy for us pastors to harbor ill-will towards those who don’t listen. It’s extremely difficult for us to shepherd people we wished weren’t there! However, Jesus made it very clear that His disciples’ plan of attack was inappropriate. Later on in Luke 23:34 we read our Lord saying, “Father, forgive them, for they know not what they do.” May our Lord extend grace to help us love those who don’t listen.
This post was originally published on November 4, 2013.
Some people I have thought were not listening turned out to be listening very well. Our youngest daughter could never sit still as a girl. She’d draw, play with paper, all kinds of things (even whisper to her mom), but literally after every service, she’d ask questions that were quite perceptive enough that they proved she had been listening, and some of those times she was being her most disruptive! And some adults in our services seem to be sleeping or just ignoring me, but again, after services, or at other times, they will make comments, referring to things I’ve said in sermons when I thought they weren’t listening.
It gets worse. Some people who are taking notes, or seemingly very intent tend to be also the most resistant to those words they read. Go figure! 🙂
Great to hear from you, John. I hope you are well and experiencing God’s shalom. Yes, it’s interesting how much folks who we thought weren’t listening remember! It’s too bad your final observation is true too. God give us grace in the form of hearers with ears to hear His Word. Godspeed to effective disciple-making, brother.